A Word
About Wedding Favors
Wedding favors
are tricky. Before you spend hundreds
of dollars on wedding favors realize that not every bride
uses them and they are not required. Some wedding planners
even consider them tacky. On the other hand
favors can pull double duty as table decorations and save
you money and they are fun to choose and fun to
make.
Personally, I like
the idea of giving guests a gift. You've already shelled out the
big bucks to feed your guests dinner, plied them with
alcohol, and had a fantastic time celebrating your new
life. Why not give them a little memento to remember
the evening? If you decide to give wedding
favors use a bit of caution. From dozens of discussions and
reading hundreds of posts on wedding bulletin boards I have
concluded that:
1.
You cannot
go wrong with edible favors. People always like chocolate
and Jordan Almonds. Wine, if it is within your
means, is also a good choice.
2.
Generally,
your guests do not want knick-knacks with your names or
initials on them.
We all have too much clutter and face it--your wedding is not
as important to anyone else as it is to you.
3.
CDs sound
like a good idea but people do not really want recordings of
your favorite love songs.
4.
If a
non-edible favor is not somehow useful to your guest it will
probably end up in the trash.
5.
Spend your
money on the items that mean the most to you. If your budget is very tight
and favors are just another detail or a hassle-skip
them. Your guests
will probably not even notice.
That said, I have
put together some favor ideas that may be useful.
1.
Candles
2.
Edible
Favors—chocolate,
candy, coffee, and wine
3.
Camera Wedding
Favors
4.
Useful
Favors--
wine
stoppers, cork screws, golf tees, etc.

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